Matthew Hussey here with Love Life, I have a question for you. When you think about

going after the things you want most in life, how do you feel? Excited, inspired, capable

of doing anything you put your mind to? Or do you feel overwhelmed, discouraged, like

you're facing an insurmountable obstacle? If your answer is overwhelmed, you're not alone.

Most people feel the same way, and the reason is this. Most people think that in order to

achieve their biggest goals, they have to take big monumental actions, and that makes them

give up before they even begin. But the truth is, the key to achieving our goals is

consistency. Small actions done regularly. Consistency can make all the difference between

achieving your dreams and staying stuck and unfulfilled where you are. So let's set you

up for success. I'll do my part by showing up every few days with a new episode filled

with advice to help you live your best life. Think of listening to my show as your one

small action you can do consistently. Here's your first assignment. Go to iTunes and click

the subscribe button. This will make sure that you get the latest episode as soon as it's

released. Ready to get started? Let's go.

We have a caller on the line today, her name is Shantel. Am I pronouncing that right,

Shantel? It's Shantel. Shantel. It's good to speak to you. You too. I can't believe I'm

talking to you. I can't live I'm talking to you. This is a great moment for us both. What

was your question, Shantel? I was watching your video about when you said that we make excuses

as to why we can't date. So I thought I knew why I didn't want to date right now, but

that video made me think. I thought about it and I found out that the reason was that I

feel like I'm not dating material. When I say that, I feel like I'm not at a point in

my life where I should be like, you know, like, financially or just where I am. I feel

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