Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shallon Exo Podcast. I'm your host, Shallon Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze select relationships and scambles

for lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week. Welcome back to the podcast and my girls

on top. So this week, we're going to follow up from what we were talking about last week,

which is the concept of high self esteem, but low self worth. So I encourage you to go

back and take a lesson to that because I dismantled what that actually means and why so many

of us fall victim to it and how it manifests in our dating life, like really what it looks

like. Because it's one of those phrases that you're like, yeah, okay. Uh-huh. But how, wait,

what? It's like, you think you understand it, but you kind of need to break it down and

sit with it for a little bit. So I really think you should go back and give that a

lesson because in this episode, we're going to talk about what to do about that. But you know,

I'll give you the TLDR. So the TLDR, high self worth low self esteem, is when we know

that we are a bad bitch, we know we are looking very clearly at our positive qualities. We're not,

you know, I hate humility. I think humility is for losers. Work hard, be humble. I mean,

work hard, but like be proud of yourself. Women are constantly told like, no, don't, oh my god,

it's just an accident that I looked this way. Even though I spent two hours getting ready and

oh, yeah, I got the promotion. But like, everyone else in the office works so hard. Hell no, girl,

you stand up and you patch yourself on the back. And if you want, I will DM me. I'll be like,

look at this bad bitch. Look at her go. Anyway, it's when we can look at ourselves and say, I am

x, y, z, I am, I am great. And I'm not accidentally great. Like, I work hard to be this kind of

diverse school person. But the outcomes I have in dating don't like, they don't speak to this. Like,

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