Are You Dating From Your Wound Or Your Worth? ft. Amy Nobile Messing
We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
4.2 • 2.5K Ratings
🗓️ 3 May 2026
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Amy Nobile Messing is back on the podcast! Amy is a holistic dating coach. We discuss the problem with Love Story, what healthy couples argue about, dating from your wound vs. your worth, hard truths single people may need to hear, how to enjoy solo time, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a dear media production. |
| 0:17.8 | Hey guys, welcome back to Rackmi. |
| 0:20.1 | I'm so excited for today's episode with Amy. She is a goddess, a queen. And I feel like this was a really good one. Like, you know, when you're just vibing and you're just in a good mood after you do something workwise, because you're like, I feel like that was just fun. And I feel like I'm serving my purpose. |
| 0:39.4 | Well, that's how I feel when I talk to Amy. She's just great energy. And I know you're going |
| 0:43.9 | to love this episode. And I can't wait to hear your thoughts. Make sure that you have |
| 0:48.0 | subscribed to our substack. If you want to hear more, we met at Acme and we met at Baby. And we |
| 0:53.9 | we also have all of our episodes on YouTube. |
| 0:56.7 | So check them out. Hope you enjoy. Hey guys. Welcome back to We Met at Acme. I'm so excited to be back |
| 1:02.7 | with Amy Nobly Messing. And she is the best guys. She's a holistic dating coach. She's been on the |
| 1:09.4 | pod before. We had one of my favorite |
| 1:12.1 | episodes, which was about your quote, which I love, was called the quote that you gave me, |
| 1:17.7 | which is you can only meet someone as deeply as you've met yourself, which I loved. And we talked |
| 1:22.6 | all about dating and dating at profiles and just like how to set yourself up for dating success. |
| 1:28.3 | So if you haven't listened to that one, definitely go back and listen and then come here for part two. It was five years ago. Yeah, so crazy. Crazy. Well, thank you for having me. Welcome back. I'm so happy to see you. I'm happy to catch up. I can't wait. Well, I have to ask this question that we always start with, but then we got to get back into the conversation we were just having because it was, it was amazing. So, Amy, what is your favorite romantic gesture for someone to do for you? Oh, that's so great. I ask my clients this question when we're doing, I call it visioning work, we're visioning the person who they're calling in. For me, it was really simple. It was |
| 2:03.3 | bringing me tea in bed. And Brett does that. Never had to ask him. And yeah, for me, I spent a long |
| 2:12.1 | time in my first marriage doing everything for everybody. So what's yours? |
| 2:21.2 | You know, I get this turned around on me a lot. |
| 2:23.6 | And I just like acts of service. |
| 2:31.4 | You know, I just like when my husband just does like literally, I could lie and say I'm not hard to please. |
| 2:33.7 | But no, I'm definitely a little hard to please. |
| 2:35.7 | But I'm very pleased by the immediate act of getting rid of a box. Like, if there's a box in our apartment, which there are |
| 2:41.4 | often, just immediately make it disappear. Bring it downstairs to recycling. Like, I don't want to see it. |
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