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WTF is on my Mind?!

Are Narcissists Born or Made? w/ Dr Peter Salerno

WTF is on my Mind?!

Mark Vicente

True Crime, Film, Society & Culture, Documentary, Nxivm, Cult, Philosophy, Narcissistic Abuse, Tv & Film, Psychology, Television, Narcissism, Coercion, Coercive Control

4.8706 Ratings

🗓️ 21 September 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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In this episode of WTF is on My Mind?!, I sit down with Dr. Peter Salerno — a retired psychotherapist and author who has spent decades studying personality disorders, psychopathy, and complex trauma. Our conversation dives straight into one of the most heated debates in psychology: are narcissists shaped by trauma and upbringing, or are some people simply born with traits that evolve into full-blown disorders? Dr. Salerno challenges the conventional belief that all narcissism stems from chil...

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0:00.0

My name is Mark Vissente. I'm a director, producer, writer, and troublemaker. I'm most known as the director of the film What the Gleap Do We Know, and as one of the next-in whistleblowers featured in the HBO series, The Vow. Let's just say, I know a thing or two about cults. I don't consider myself a cult expert, but I'm definitely an expert in being screwed over, waking up, and

0:21.7

knowing how to spot them.

0:23.4

And let me tell you, they're everywhere.

0:26.2

My mission is to help people see patterns of abuse across multiple contexts.

0:30.5

From personal to family, to group to societal, it's all the same pattern at every scale.

0:36.5

As you'll hear, I have a pretty salty approach to most things.

0:39.8

So there might be some blasphemy.

0:41.6

One or two sacred cows might get knocked over, and there'll likely be some foul language.

0:46.2

You never quite know what you're going to get, because it really does depend on what the

0:51.3

fuck is on my mind.

0:53.0

Hello, everybody.

0:53.7

Welcome back. Today on WTF is on my mind. Hello, everybody. Welcome back.

0:54.9

Today on WTF is on my mind.

0:57.0

I'm talking to Dr. Peter Salerno, a retired licensed psychotherapist with a doctorate

1:01.4

in clinical psychology who spent decades studying personality disorders,

1:06.1

pathological abuse, and complex trauma.

1:08.8

He's trained in administering the hair psychopathy checklist,

1:12.3

has worked extensively with survivors of coercive relationships, and coined the term traumatic

1:17.3

cognitive dissonance to describe the paralyzing confusion so many victims experience under the

1:22.5

gaslighting and control. You may also have seen him in the Hulu series, Ted Bundy, falling for a killer,

1:28.1

where he shared insights into psychopathy and the psychology of predators. Dr. Salerno is an

1:34.4

author of multiple books and is known for challenging mainstream ideas about narcissism and

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