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Betrayal: Weekly

April | Betrayal Weekly

Betrayal: Weekly

iHeartPodcasts and Glass Podcasts

True Crime, Society & Culture, Relationships

3.76.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

After twenty years of marriage, April thought she’d seen every side of Joe. She never imagined the one that put him behind bars. ​​

PERPETRATOR DISCLOSURE: This episode discusses crimes committed by Richard Joseph Banks Jr in San Diego, California.  

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an IHeart podcast.

0:02.3

Guaranteed Human.

0:08.4

We pull out of our house.

0:11.7

We get about two blocks from the old house.

0:15.8

And he looks at me and he says,

0:18.2

I think I'm getting ready to be arrested.

0:23.0

Within seconds of that coming out of his mouth, the squad car lit us up and pulled us over.

0:37.0

Within seconds of that, the deceptions that change everything.

0:55.6

Today, we're sharing April's story.

0:58.5

Growing up in San Diego, April was extremely close to her parents.

1:02.8

She'd been adopted by them when she was six weeks old.

1:05.5

Her dad was her best friend.

1:07.5

I was definitely a tomboy growing up, and so my joke had always been that I was the son

1:12.6

my dad never had. I know how to change a spark plug on my car and all of the things within the

1:19.5

engine. They had a typical middle class of urban life. Religion and faith were the foundation

1:25.5

of their family.

1:28.9

I was born and raised in the church.

1:31.4

I grew up with Christian values.

1:34.8

Church gave April purpose and community.

1:40.6

I have a fierce sense of wanting people to feel like they belong.

1:46.1

Being adopted, you deal with trauma in the sense that you were almost rejected from birth. So I want people to know that they belong, that they have a place. The church also fed

1:54.5

April's passion for music. My mom got me into piano lessons at an early age, and so I always played at church.

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