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AP 240: Guard Your Yes's || Growth Spurt

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Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.9 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2020

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

One time I almost considered becoming engaged to someone (not my husband!) because I was so scared to say no. My struggle with saying yes and saying no has been a long journey, friends, and it's one I'm still working on. In this episode I want to talk about how to guard your yes's and give you my personal experience with, and guidelines, on how to do that. Last year I lived a year of yes (anyone else read Shonda Rimes' book?) and learned a lot about myself, and others, who behave this way. Not only does saying yes, and even saying no, affect you, it affects everyone around you. Maybe that's not surprising. If this is something you struggle with, examine the feelings that come up when you give a mis-intended yes. Now let's not go crazy here, I don't like laundry but I still say yes to it, because of my life's priorities. That's the bonus fourth point I share in this episode, along with 3 other rules I follow to guard my yes's. If this topic is something you know you need to work on even more, check out Becky Higgins episode "Why You Need to Say No to Good Things". About a few other things... If this episode struck a chord with you and you know it's time to respect what you really want out of your life, see if the Progress Program is right for you. Through small group coaching I want to help you get unstuck in ways that stick. Doors close 2/28 (or before that if the group reaches capacity - I keep it really small!). Not sure if I'm the right coach for you? Find out by attending my bite-sized class (1.5 hours!) on beating the procrastination blues. SHOW NOTES Apply for the Progress Program Take the online procrastination class Get the Organization Overhaul audio course Join the monthly membership group Get your first month+ FREE with Libsyn using code MONICA Lend your voice and experience + be featured on the show HERE Join the free and private FB group Join Monica on Facebook and Instagram Songs Credit: DRIVE by Dj Nicolai Heidlas @nicolai-heidlas Music provided by FREE MUSIC FOR VLOGS AND VIDEOS bit.ly/freemusicforvlogs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Are you ready for a growth spurt? Well, I've caught one for you today. One to two times a month, I'll give you a short message that I am calling a growth

0:15.9

spurt that will help you narrow in on our focus of the month in ways that are

0:20.8

bite-sized and super applicable right away.

0:24.3

So let's jump on in.

0:27.2

I am so happy to be here. I had two great growth sports

0:32.1

plan for you, but then I got really sick again. We've just

0:35.8

had a weird winter that way and you know usually I don't get sick very often but

0:40.7

it's been one of those winters where I've just gotten to quite a lot.

0:44.4

So I'm going to save my other Grossberg for next month and it's going to be the perfect match

0:48.6

to our theme which I can't wait to tell you about.

0:51.0

And today our Grossberg is about how to guard you about. And today our Grosper is about how to guard your yeses. Before we do that, I want

0:56.9

to remind you if you have been thinking about overcoming your procrastination tendencies

1:01.9

and wondering how to do that.

1:03.8

On Monday night, which you might be listening to this on Monday,

1:06.8

this is the 24th of February,

1:09.6

I am having a very affordable class on procrastination online with replace so you can go to

1:15.6

about progress.com slash procrastination. This is also the last week to enroll to my progress program.

1:22.1

Now we will not be opening up doors likely until fall, if not even late fall because of things that are going to happen this year for my family. So will you please do yourself a favor and at least go check it out.

1:34.4

Go to about progress.com slash progress program. This is where I help you get

1:38.8

unstuck in ways that stick. This is where I help you uncover the more that is within you that you are just

1:45.1

wanting to discover for yourself. Again go to about progress.com slash

1:49.7

progress program. I'm going to set up our Grosport today by telling you a very short story.

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