Today on The Girl Defined Show, we are going to answer your hush, hush questions about sex.

Now, we actually took a deep dive into these questions in our book, Sex,

Peerity and the Longings of a Girls Heart. But we have received so many more since this book came out,

questions where you've said, I kind of want to know this about sex, or I kind of want to know this

about like my past or about the future. But I don't really want to ask this. So you've

sent these questions in a DM and an email very anonymously. And we are going to bring them to

the forefront and say, hey, a lot of us have these questions. A lot of you are asking these. So let's

talk about it. These don't need to be hush. We can talk about this as Christian women. We don't

have to be afraid and shy like, who sex? Like we can go there. So let's jump in and answer some of

your biggest hush, hush questions about sex. Hey, sisterhood, it is Kristen here and

Bethany. And this is a conversation that we are almost too excited to have. Like we're the

opposite of shy when it comes to talking about sex and intimacy. But it hasn't always been that

way. I would say maybe there was a time where we were a little more bashful, especially in our younger

years, but we have come to understand the beauty of God's design. Regardless of where any of us have

been, what we've done, what we're afraid of what's been done to us, as we really understand the

beauty of God's design for sex, for intimacy, for forgiveness, for all of these things,

restoration, restoration, past sin and failure versus God's redemption and walking a new path forward

in Christ's strength. Like there is so much beauty in his design that we do not have to be afraid

about it and and scared to talk about it. In fact, God is not afraid or scared to talk about it.

And so as Christian women, we should not be either. The world is shouting it from the mountaintops

and giving us very secular advice for how to answer all of our questions, leading us further and

further away from God's design. So today, we're going to dig into some of your most pressing secret

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