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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Andrew Tate, Confidence Killers & Getting Out of the Friend Zone

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

Ted Talks, Self Help, Health & Fitness, Millenials, Gen Z, Toxic, Healing, Education, Zodiac Signs, Kim Kardashian, Mental Health Expert, Violetta Benson, #Pop Culture, Violet Benson, Call Her Daddy, Celebrities, Celebrity News, Comedy Podcast, Single, Expert, Personal Growth, Jewish, Manifesting, Violetta, Personal Journals, Mental Health, Self Love, Breakups, Francesca Farago, Lgbtq, Daddy Issues, Love And Relationships, Dating Advice, Stand Up Comedy, Dating And Relationships, Adulting, Self Improvement, 30s, Lifestyle, Society & Culture, Life Coach, Dating, Comedy, Self-improvement, Female Empowerment, Jay Shetty, Relationships, Being 30, Influencer, Astrology, Creator

4.84.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 March 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Tiny Adults, it's that time of the month—our second-week Dear Violet episode! But first, a little story time. I just got back from a wild Vegas weekend at UFC, where I had an unexpected run-in with Andrew Tate. Yep, you heard that right. I’ll spill all the details before diving into today’s episode, where we tackle everything from confidence killers to trauma, self-love, and getting what you want.

Here’s what we’re covering:

  • The Power of Labels – How to label someone to get exactly what you want.
  • Grief & Healing – Everyone processes grief differently. Here’s how to navigate it in a way that works for you.
  • Trauma & Your Nervous System – The difference between immobilization and movement during trauma—and how it determines your healing speed.
  • Breaking Down Trauma Processing – The three key steps: sensing, naming, and identifying.
  • When You Feel Ugly & Unlovable – My advice to someone struggling with self-worth.
  • The 4 Confidence Killers – What’s secretly holding you back from the life you want.
  • Self-Affirmations I Swear By – Plus, a sneak peek into my love-yourself speech.
  • The Real Key to Self-Love – It’s not what you think.
  • Does He Like Me? – How to go from the friend zone to something more.
  • 5 Easy Comebacks – What to say when someone’s being rude (because we love a good mic drop).


This episode is packed, so grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it! Don't forget to subscribe, share with your friends, and leave me a 5 star review on the podcast app besties :)

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm fresh off the plane, just landed in Vegas.

0:03.0

I walk into the event.

0:04.7

I sit down.

0:05.5

I look to my left.

0:06.6

And lo and behold, it's Andrew fucking Tate.

0:10.7

It's Vile Vents and your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for.

0:14.7

But meido, welcome to almost adulting.

0:18.7

Almost adulting.

0:22.8

Are you ready?

0:24.6

Hi, everyone.

0:25.7

I am Violetta Benson,

0:27.8

and you're listening to a brand new almost adulting.

0:31.4

Welcome, welcome back.

0:33.4

If you're a new listener,

0:34.4

thank you so much for joining in today.

0:36.6

Don't forget to subscribe to my

0:37.7

podcast. We have a new episode every Thursday with some bonus episodes on Tuesday from time to time.

0:43.6

This is still the month of March. And today we have a brand new episode of Dear Violetta.

0:50.5

Where is it, Dear Violet? I forgot which one I decided to name. I asked Chadji and I forgot which one Chajeevee said that clicks better.

0:57.4

But maybe you guys can tell me, maybe if someone wanted to DM me on Violet or Almost Adolting,

1:02.2

to tell me if you prefer the category of the second week episode of every month to be Dear Violet or Dear Violetta,

1:09.9

that'll be great. Anyway, if you're a returning listener, thank you so much for entrusting in me to be the podcast

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