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Seeing Other People

Am I Too Busy To Date?

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2024

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his 13-year relationship, and shares the challenges of balancing work and personal life. Ryan also touches on growing up with a single mother, the impact of his demanding career on his social and dating life, and offers his best piece of dating advice.

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04:04 Career and Personal Life Balance

06:20 Challenges of Maintaining Relationships

12:52 Current Dating Life and Career Demands

17:58 Lessons from a Single Mom

19:16 Balancing Work and Fun

20:15 Dating in Your 40s vs. 20s

24:47 Finding Joy in Life

31:40 The Importance of Listening

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:04.8

Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:09.8

It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences.

0:17.7

Think you're alone out there?

0:18.9

Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. Ryan P. Hall. Hello. Welcome to seeing other people. Yes. Thank you for having me. I'm not used to recording without holding a microphone. This is very odd for me. I'm also not used to having a thing dangling on my shirt. Yeah, but we're gonna roll with the punches.

0:38.3

Why Pee? Why Ryan Pee Hall? Not just Ryan Hall.

0:41.3

So my name is so boring.

0:43.3

Ryan Hall, two four-letter words that I had that.

0:46.3

No. So my name is Porter.

0:49.3

And I hated it growing up. I don't know why, because it was weird.

0:53.3

And then when it was my grandfather's middle name.

0:55.4

And then when he died, it just took on new meaning and also like made my name not so boring. And so like we say Ryan Hall, you fall asleep while you're saying it. Like it's that. I think Ryan Hall is a great name. It's just, I don't know. It's just like it's nothing interesting. It's like, I'm from Kentucky and I, that's already boring.

1:12.9

And then you add a boring name.

1:14.7

It's just, I don't know, it's nothing interesting. It's like, I'm from Kentucky, and that's already boring. And then you add a boring name. It's just like, I didn't have my own. I think Ryan Hall sounds like the coolest person I never heard of from Kentucky. Well, the bar is low. So I'll take it. But, yeah, I mean, it's funny. When people say Ride Hall, like, I don't even know who that is.

1:28.8

Like, my friends either call me like the full name.

1:31.7

They'll say like, hey, Ryan Peel. Yeah. It's just so weird. I never asked for that. It just happens or it's like RPAH or something. RPAH? Yeah. Okay. coerced you into coming on to this podcast.

1:42.4

Corsed, you were politely asked.

1:44.2

Pallely insist.

1:45.5

Several seafood towers.

1:47.1

Yes.

1:47.7

So, yes. When you agreed to come on a dating and relationships podcast, was there anything in your mind of like, ooh, I really don't want to talk about that? I hope that doesn't come on. Well, I don't know. I mean, you know, we'll see.

2:01.6

You know, it's obviously like when you're talking about dating relationships, especially, you know,

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