These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

All right. This is the secret to getting away with anything you want. This is the key. This is the key to allowing you to do anything you want with somebody else.

And what I mean by that is getting away with bad behavior.

The key is when they call you out, when somebody says, hey, I don't like that. Don don't do that all you have to do is say the

following this is a result of your actions and that'll be it that'll solve the problem

now you can get away with anything you want. And of course,

I'm joking. Of course, I'm being sarcastic. And this is something that somebody told me recently on

a message they sent me. This woman wrote to me and said that her wife has basically put her

through the ringer and said, all the stuff that I'm doing to you

is a consequence of your actions.

And she didn't know, the person who wrote to me didn't know how to respond to that or

doesn't know how to respond to that.

Or maybe she did, didn't tell me.

But that is something that basically pushes you against the wall

and you don't know how to answer it because it seems illogical.

It's like saying, I smacked you in the face because you changed the channel.

So it was your fault.

Your smack in the face, the one I gave you, is your fault

because you changed the channel. It's illogical. Of course. It's illogical. It doesn't make any sense

because the punishment doesn't fit the crime. A, there's no crime.

It was only a perception that somebody had

that they interpreted as something offensive

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