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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2018

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Does God want me to be single forever? How do I know whether or not I have the "gift" of singleness? How do I hold on to hope when the future seems so unknown and so unclear? So many people are struggling with these questions as they look ahead at an unknown future and wonder whether or not God has marriage in their horizon. Am I Going To Be Single Forever? There are so many things in life where we just don't know what God has planned. But there are some truths and promises that can keep you grounded and hopeful while you wait. This final episode of Season 1 of the Love + Relationships Podcast is an important one, and one that is really close to my heart with all the waiting I have done in my life - and the waiting I continue to do in so many other ares of my life. I hope and pray that this episode will leave you encouraged as we collectively learn to trust God with the unknowns in life. We're going to be back with the Love + Relationships Podcast, with brand new guests, topics, and episodes starting January 1st! I look forward to reconnecting with you again in the new year....but in the meantime, catch up on all the episodes, and send in all your relationship questions as we're gearing up to record Season 2! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: Ready to make some changes in your love life? Check out this 21 Day Course - 21 Days To Jump Start Your Love Life! Enjoyed this episode of the podcast? Check out the episode about Junk Food Relationships: Healthy Relationships Aren't Convenient Or check out this mini episode and find out what I think about the concept of "Finding The One". BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.   DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She's also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Feleda,

0:23.1

and I'm so excited to have the chance to have these candid conversations with you about love,

0:28.6

sex, dating, singleness, and marriage. For those of you who don't know me, or if you're tuning in

0:33.5

for the first time, I'm a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship issues.

0:39.3

I also run the Relationship Advice blog, TrueLovDates.com, reaching millions of people with the

0:45.0

message of healthy relationships. And as you'll find out about me, that's something I'm really

0:50.1

passionate about. If you've tuned into this podcast for a while, you know that it's generally

0:54.7

a hotline style podcast, meaning people call in with the relationship questions and we talk

0:59.8

through them on the show. But because I've received so many of your questions, I decided I needed

1:06.4

to do these little mini episodes where I'll be taking the questions that you've sent my way via

1:11.4

email or voice memo and I'll be answering them in short, practical, bite-sized answers in these

1:18.0

mini episodes. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, make sure to send it

1:23.2

via email or voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com and I'll do my best to get it answered on one of

1:29.8

the episodes. So let's get started. Today's episode question comes from Paul, who asks,

1:40.6

How do you know if you're meant to be single or married? That's a really good question.

1:48.0

And it's one that I get often, Paul, especially from people who are kind of worried that God is calling them to lifelong singleness.

1:57.7

And they want to know, like, does God want me to be single forever how do I know if I'm

2:03.4

called to singleness if I have the gift of singleness we've all heard that phrase in

2:09.2

Christian culture one of my readers wrote to me if singleness is a gift then I'm holding on to the

2:15.3

gift receipt because I'm returning this thing. And I had to laugh

2:19.1

at that, but it's so true for so many people that they're struggling with this question. And it's actually

2:27.3

one of the greatest fears of the singles that I meet is the idea that being single and alone forever

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