All Up in Your Feelings? One Simple Tool to Get Out of Your Head and Back into Your Life!
The Virtual Couch
Tony Overbay LMFT
4.9 • 668 Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2021
⏱️ 35 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, oh, oh, oh, come on in and take a seat on the virtual couch. |
| 0:26.1 | Hey everybody, welcome to episode 299 of the virtual couch. |
| 0:31.3 | It is crazy to think that I am almost at 300 episodes of this podcast. |
| 0:33.3 | But I am still your host, Tony Overbay. |
| 0:46.7 | I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified mindful habit coach, writer, speaker, husband, father, four, ultra marathon runner, and creator of the Pathback, an online pornography recovery program that is helping people reclaim their lives from turning to unhealthy things like pornography as a coping mechanism. |
| 0:58.5 | So go to pathback recovery.com. You can find out more there. And thank you for a lot of the crossover folks. I know numbers have been going up on the virtual couch again, and it is because of the people that are coming here from my new podcast waking up to narcissism, which is 14 episodes in. And in 14 episodes, it's already |
| 1:03.5 | pulling in numbers that it took probably a couple of hundred episodes of the virtual couch to. |
| 1:08.4 | So I know there is such a need there and it is a very |
| 1:11.4 | specific type of podcast. But if you haven't checked that out, please Joe go check out waking up |
| 1:15.5 | the narcissism wherever you get your podcast. But let's get to the topic today. Why I am talking |
| 1:21.9 | about self as context. And that was a very awkward sentence to begin. But last week's episode, I talked about |
| 1:29.3 | why actually trying to pursue happiness or almost forced happiness can backfire. And I went over |
| 1:35.9 | the six principles of acceptance and commitment therapy, my favorite therapeutic modality. |
| 1:40.4 | And the one that I actually got the most feedback on was one of the principles there called self as context. |
| 1:46.3 | And it really is a fascinating concept. |
| 1:48.9 | And it's one that I recognized as people were bringing that to my attention through emails and some client sessions. |
| 1:55.1 | That it's one that I rely on more than I thought, more than I was aware. |
| 1:59.2 | So I wanted to do a specific episode where I talk a little |
| 2:02.7 | bit more about self as context. And it is a very, very powerful therapeutic modality that you |
| 2:09.2 | can practice right now. And I hope by the end of this podcast today, you'll have some new tools |
| 2:13.7 | and you can practice this throughout the coming weeks, the holidays, because as things |
| 2:18.2 | continue to amp up around any stressful event, whether it's a holiday, a birthday, a test, any |
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