Hey, you guys, welcome to Heal Survive and Thrive this week. We have a really great episode because I feel like this is what you're going to be listening to when you're going out for a run.

You're going out for a walk.

You're cleaning your house.

Like put the headset on.

Listen to this over and over again because I want you to get out of your head that all the good ones are taken.

That there's no one in your area that you like.

You can never find anyone attractive.

You don't have a lot of chemistry with a lot of people.

Like I, we need to completely get that out of our system, out of our minds, out of our heads.

I know it's so easy just to go there because you're basing it on your assumptions or you're

basing it on your like limiting beliefs, right?

You're basing it on just what you have probably

been through and seen. And in some way, it makes you feel good to kind of go there, right? You kind of feel

like the victim. And this is not what this is about. I want you to feel empowered. I want you to work on

yourself. I want you to know that everything that you actually want that you're going to get, that you're

going to find someone that you are attracted to physically emotionally mentally like all the things

because here's a thing everything that you want it's not going to show up in your life if you literally

think it's not going to happen or you're never going to meet anyone or there's no one here

like we need

to really switch that kind of mindset so i'm not just about positive thinking i'm about being

actually realistic and knowing realistically that what you're saying doesn't make any sense at all

so like let's be honest with each other for a second what you're saying doesn't make any sense at all. So like let's be honest with each other for a second.

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