Can I say something controversial though?

I think you should marry your type.

I've seen people say that the person they're married to wasn't their type. I think that's weird. It catches up to you. Finding somebody attractive matters. I think being sexually attracted to somebody matters. I think all those things matter. But this is what I want to push back on. Sometimes people, types are so unhealthy. I tell people divorce your type and marry your core values.

I think the church

has hijacked a lot of people from pursuing their type because they made it seem like, oh, it's only spiritual. No, no, no, no. It's both. But she's not only. Thank you. I like taking child with. Come on. I like seeing her. Come on, sir. This morning I woke up.

I said, you have the prettiest britt...

They're not...

She's like, hold on. I like seeing her. Come on, sir. This morning I woke up. I said, you have the prettiest britt.

Didn't I?

She's like, hold on, hold on.

What you're about to say?

It's testimony time. Didn't I say that this morning? I always say, you don't need to marry the best looking person you ever met. You just need to marry the best person you ever met. I married the best person I ever met.

That's what I'm talking about.

And she just happened to be fine.

This couple is so kingdom-minded that they're putting on a huge event that represents the kingdom of God. Welcome to the Dear Future Wafy podcast, my homies, the ringos. How y'all doing? What's going on, man? What's going on? You said that I got a pit in my stomach like, God, why do you to do that? Why are you crazy enough to put on the known conference?

There's a long list, but I will start with the first one God told me too. People struggle with

this every day. They're like, I heard from the Lord. I know this is the lane. Finances are one of

the number one, if not the number one cause of divorce. Is there a balance or do you just trust God?

No, so I think I think trusting God is two things. Are your gifts opening doors? Because if they're not, you may not be gifted in that area, right? I'm not going to hijack our finances for a dream because guess what? God called me to provide for my family. Before Adam had Eve, he had a job. My job is to provide and I think to spoil my wife. Not just provide, I think to spoil my wife. I want to take a couple steps back so my audience can know, who are y'all, how did y'all meet each other? I didn't tell people that y'all married. I didn't tell people nothing about y'all. We start talking about business and a relationship and all that. So we're going to go step back. How long have y'all been married?

What started as a search for understanding became a journey of transformation.

Every letter that I wrote led me to this day,

the day I got married.

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