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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Aggressive Toddler Behavior (Hitting, Biting, Spitting)

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2016

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Janet responds to a father whose 2.5-year-old is acting out at home and at school by biting, hitting, and sometimes spitting when she doesn’t get her way. The toddler’s dad says he’s tried a respectful approach to curb her behavior, but it seems to be getting worse. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, before we begin, I just want to remind you to please check out my new

0:07.6

No Bad Kids Master course.

0:09.6

You can find out all about it at nobadkidscourse.com.

0:13.8

Hi, this is Janet Lansbury and welcome to Unruffold.

0:20.4

Today, I'm going to be responding to a letter from a father who is concerned about his daughter's

0:27.4

aggressive behavior.

0:33.3

So here's the letter I received.

0:36.1

Janet, our 2.5-year-old is very smart, very caring, and daring.

0:41.4

She doesn't fear easily, loves to read, loves to play by herself, and is extremely strong

0:47.2

willed.

0:48.5

We've been following Rye Principles since she was 6 months old.

0:52.6

When she was 18 months old, her speech was delayed, possibly because we spoke four languages

0:57.1

at home.

0:58.7

In the last 2-3 months, she's picked up so fast that it is no longer an issue.

1:04.5

She has been going to daycare since she was 18 months old, and lately she's been very

1:09.8

aggressive in dealing with her peers who try to take away her toys.

1:14.3

She doesn't like anyone in her personal space.

1:17.4

She has been biting other kids, regardless of size.

1:21.2

No amount of talking to her has helped.

1:23.9

We even read her teeth are not for biting, I guess that's a book, on a regular basis.

1:31.3

We have tried telling her to express herself in other ways, telling her teachers, or expressing

1:36.6

her frustration in other ways.

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