Welcome to the Wallace Show aftercast all the stuff we did not get to during the course of the show today

including a conversation about infidelity that Gavin I were just having

Not that either one of us struggle with it, but Betty Rock was super quiet and I really

want to hear her opinion on this I don't know if she was working or just tuning out.

You didn't hear okay yeah because Betty Rock has to have her headphones on during the show a lot and like she's cutting up audio. So we were talking about infidelity, okay?

You were. What brought that up? That's my point. Neither one for us. But like at church recently one of the pastors was doing this message and he was talking about

counseling somebody like 20 years ago and they had been married the guy had an infidelity it was like one and this was like years and

years later he told the guy you need to go confess this to your wife and I was like

oh I think that's such a bad idea like personally and so

Gavin I were debating this like if I had been with my wife for say 20 years

and I found out she had an indiscretion or cheated on me

year two but we went and had this great life otherwise I would never want to

know because to me I'm like it feels selfish like you're just

alleviating your guilt and then you're destroying what this other person has felt

for 20 years now if you fought the whole time and you had a miserable marriage, then maybe the cheating

was indicative of that, then you just get it all out in the open and maybe start over.

Like I could see that.

But if things were good?

But if things were good? But if things were good?

They are, yes, but is sometimes being so honest

you can destroy somebody is that the crueler thing to do. Wait a minute this is

coming from the guy who's like, says things all the time.

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