Awakening can be lonely.

And that can feel uncomfortable and sad.

But it's also not a problem.

And I'm going to explain why that is in this video

and what it reveals about the nature of almost every human relationship and how to escape the unwritten contracts and push pull that dominate the social landscape.

So when a Ken show happens,

it's not that we escape our feelings.

Quite the opposite.

Mind identification stops and we drop from being trapped in the head,

which we learn as a way to avoid our feelings when we're young, into the body.

And actually our feelings and all these contractions that have been laid down over the years are free to come up.

And there isn't the resistance there.

And so everything is felt and that can be uncomfortable.

But as I've said on many occasions, for me, I'm so pleased that I started doing the work of stopping abandoning myself.

Stopping, leaving my feelings to control outcomes.

It's trying to manage other people's feelings to please them or to control them years before Ken Show.

Because then I started to separate what's mine and what's not mine.

And then with Ken Show, the clean seeing comes that the love we seek is not outside us.

And the first mistake the ego makes, one of the first mistakes the ego makes when we're young is to confuse approval with love.

And awakening is seeing, oh, I am love.

I am love.

So, of course I can't get love from outside myself.

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