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Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #7

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot. Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out. Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: [email protected] Do you have a comment for this show? Record it and send it in to [email protected], or call 206-302-2064 It's the Magnum Gift sale Dec 1–31! Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy at 50% off, just $24! Savage.love/gift. Who is Dan Savage? Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0

You're listening to After Action Report at Savage. Love.

0:11.5

Welcome to After Action Report, where I interview people who've tried something super wild or new to them.

0:20.1

This week I speak with Justin, a 21-year-old gay man who

0:22.6

fearlessly dove headburst into some pretty hardcore kinks have a listen to hear what he

0:28.6

endured and how he felt about it joining me for this after-action report Justin hey

0:34.0

Justin thank you for coming on the show. Hey there. Thanks for having me.

0:38.3

So who are you? Give us a brief bio, no identifying details. I'm 21. I'm a college student. I live on

0:44.4

the West Coast. Yeah, and I'm recently getting freaky. So what is the freaky thing that you

0:51.4

wanted to try? What did you do that took you outside your comfort zone?

0:54.5

What was the new experience? I got flogged. Okay, so flogging is kind of a varsity level

1:01.2

kink. It's scary for a lot of people. You say you're only recently getting freaky. How much

1:06.6

kink experience do you have? And how quickly did you get to flogging? Well, I think I'm like maybe like

1:14.5

three or four weeks deep into my kink experiences. And flogging happened around like day three.

1:24.1

Wow. Yeah. Okay. So why did you want to try this? Why flogging? Why getting flogged? I assume you got flogged. You didn't do the flogging. Yes. I'd be worried if I was flogging someone. I recently discovered that I am like a huge masochist and the guy I've been playing with suggested it and he seemed like he really enjoyed it and like I trusted

1:44.4

his like leadership I guess or his I listen I'm going to explain instructions I guess so I was ready

1:50.5

and like at this point my kink experience I'm ready to just like try it all so it just seems like

1:56.2

a great way to really throw myself in so what other kink experiences were you having?

2:02.0

It's also bondage.

2:03.1

Like, what is it that you're exploring?

2:04.7

And are these things that you've always wanted to do?

2:07.1

Or is this a sudden, brand new interest in Kink and S&M?

2:12.8

Yeah.

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