After Action Report #6

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

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🗓️ 28 November 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you may feel...shocked. Want to tell your tale? Write us at [email protected] Want to hear more from Dan Savage? Listen to the Savage Lovecast @Savage.Love. [email protected] 206-302-2064 Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0	You're listening to After Action Report at Savage. Love.
0:11.5	Welcome to After Action Report, where folks who've tried something new, tell us how it went.
0:18.5	This week, I spoke with Chrissy, who tried something shocking. Let's all
0:23.3	purve along together, shall we? Joining us for this After Action Report, Chrissy. Chrissy, how are you?
0:30.3	I'm good. How are you, Dan? Really, really good. Thank you for coming on After Action Report.
0:35.0	Give us the brief bio, the elevator pitch. Who are you?
0:37.9	No identifying details, but just tell us a little bit about you.
0:41.3	I am a late 40s woman.
0:43.2	I'm a bisexual woman.
0:44.5	And I recently went to a sex club for the first time.
0:49.2	So you went to a sex club for the first time.
0:51.1	Yeah.
0:51.4	Why did you want to go to a sex club?
0:53.8	It's just something that I've never done.
0:55.8	And I'm sort of a pervert and I've done lots of other things. It's something that I've never had the
1:01.7	opportunity to do. So you never had the opportunity, but you always had the interest or is this a recent
1:06.9	interest? Yeah, I've always been interested. I just, when I've had partners, they haven't
1:11.7	wanted to go and I didn't want to go by myself, you know. Yeah. So what was it about a sex club
1:19.9	that enticed you? Why did you want to go to a sex club? What did you think would be there for you?
1:25.5	My friends had gone and they had said it was a fun,
1:29.5	weird time and it was just something I wanted to check out. And I like impact play. I don't mind nudity.
1:38.1	I don't mind people fucking around me. So I was like, why have I never done this thing? I'm going to
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