You're listening to After Action Report at Savage.com.

Welcome to After Action Report, where one of my listeners tells me and all of my other listeners about something new they tried.

This week, we meet James, who had a three-way of epic proportions.

James, welcome to the show. Thank you. Thank you very much. So before we get to what happened,

tell us a little bit about yourself. Who's James? I'm 40 years old, gender fluid,

I'm a musician. And that's like the main thing I do is I'm in. 40 years old, gender fluid, AMAB.

I'm a musician.

And that's like the main thing I do is I'm in a couple of bands.

And that's kind of my life.

It sounds like a pretty good, rich, rewarding, and fluid life.

So what is it that you wanted to talk with us about?

What's the new thing that you tried?

Well, I had my first,

I will call it, successful group sex experience. My first successful threesome. That went well for everybody.

So you've had threesomes in the past, but it ended badly for somebody involved. It was always like maybe two people are really involved. Maybe one person is just kind of hanging out.

I always wanted, did the one person who was just hanging out wind up having hurt feelings afterwards? Because I always warn people that if you can't picture yourself at a threesome that becomes for a moment a two-sum that you're on the outside of, you're not cut out for a two-sum. Or for a threesome, sorry, maybe you should stick to two-sons. Because often, you know, when I hear from people who had a terrible threesome or a really bad experience, what they'll say is, you know, me and my boyfriend, we had a threesome. And there was this moment where like, my boyfriend was fucking this other person. And like, it was as if I didn't exist. and I got, you know, I blew the fuck up. I got really hurt. My feeling were really hurt.

And I always tell people to imagine person and like it was as if I didn't exist and I got you know I blew the fuck up I got really

hurt my feeling are really hurt and I always tell people to imagine that moment because if you can't

hack that moment it's almost inevitable that moment and maybe you'll be on the outside or maybe

one of the other people three someone be on the outside but if you can't hack that moment you get

picture yourself in that moment and enjoying that moment where you get to

watch your partner have a twosome. You shouldn't have a threesome. So was that your experience with

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