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You're listening to After Action Report at Savage.

After Action Report, where I talk with people who've tried something for the first time,

something new to them and probably new to you too in the realm of sexuality. This week, we meet Sam, who built a certain kind of box, and while they were in it, learned

a little something about themselves.

Joining me for this After Action Report, Sam, Sam, welcome to the show.

Thanks for having me. Hi, Dan.

So before you get to what you did, what you tried, the new thing, who are you?

Give us a little biographical detail so people have a picture in their head of who Sam is.

So I'm in my late 30s.

I'm an AFAB person, kind of non-binary identifying.

I'm wholly, but I'm single.

I'm kinky, sex positive.

A lot of my life revolves around kink and sexuality,

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