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Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #15

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Some might consider Daniel a very lucky man. He brought one of his 4 girlfriends to a sex party where the men wore tuxedos and the women wore...nothing at all. Oh, and it was a Christmas party. Hear all about it. If you did something totally bonkers and want to tell the wide world about it, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to After Action Report at Savage. Love.

0:10.2

Welcome to this week's installment of After Action Report for Savage Lovecast listeners who've tried something new report.

0:17.9

Report back to me at HQ about how it went.

0:23.0

This week I got to talk with Daniel.

0:28.2

He's a poly guy in the UK who took one of his partners to a clothed male, naked, female Christmas party over there. I hope you enjoy my conversation with Daniel. Daniel, how are you?

0:34.1

Thank you for being here today. Hi, Dan. Thanks. It's great to be on.

0:53.7

So Daniel to Daniel, tell me, like, what kind of Daniel you are, what part of the world, that Daniel, the Daniel you are grew up in, a little bit about yourself, Daniel. Yeah, thanks. Great name, by the way. Yeah, so my name's Daniel. I live in England, mid-40s, a poly guy.

0:55.2

I'm one of the Polyamri success stories.

0:56.6

I've got four very, I live in England, mid-40s, poly guy.

0:56.6

I'm one of the Polyamory success stories.

0:59.8

I've got four very wonderful, very patient partners,

1:02.2

one of which I'm very proud to be married to as well.

1:03.7

So, yeah, that's me.

1:06.7

Well, congratulations on having four partners.

1:07.5

That's a lot.

1:09.4

How do you handle the bandwidth issue?

1:10.7

People must ask you that question. Yeah, the calendaring thing with polyamory is really true, actually. There's a lot of that going on. It's like, because I'm a tech as well, so I can see their calendars. They can see mine. So, you know, lots of meeting requests and things like, really like a small office almost. But yeah, it's pretty good.

1:28.7

But yeah, the calendaring thing is definitely a thing.

1:31.2

Google Cal, it made Polly Relationships possible for a lot of people,

1:34.7

especially people with more than one or two other partners.

1:38.8

So you recently had a new experience, something you tried,

1:41.6

and you wanted to come on After Action Report and tell us about.

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