The definition of insanity doing the same things over and over again

hoping for a different result. So I applaud you for trying and listening for

different ways when it comes to dating. Listen I'm a scientist out here I'm gonna do my research and I'm gonna report it to to dating. Listen, I'm a scientist out here.

I'm going to do my research and I'm going to report it to the people because I got to provide

some kind of value to this world and if there's anything I can provide, it's a lot of really

bad dating advice.

And so we were talking about one of the biggest problems I have with

dating where I feel like I'll be in this cycle of matching with guys

and every now and then getting really excited about them. And then they either ask me out and then cancel and then never like

reschedule again or they just straight up won't ask me out.

So when you talk about this on the show do you get a lot of messages from women saying hey

don't take this personally this happens to me all the time or does this feel like an

Abbey thing? No no no I'll get messages two words kind of like I'm in the trenches too and I'm like yeah

So it's just really bad out here for everybody is what I'm getting but like this specific thing like where they seem to be interested

You set something up and then they ghost even before a day? Oh no, that's an everything.

I think everyone has different problems,

but for me, yeah, I have this very specific problem

where they ask me out and then they just go store then they just

will be in this conversation and then they'll just go am I a out of for asking my

number I just it just makes no sense to me it makes no sense to me so Jackson you

gave me some really good advice when I was

talking about some issues I was having on Bumble. Yeah you were describing it

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