Abandoned After Christmas, Gold Digger Accusations & Finding Your Voice
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 19 January 2026
⏱️ 59 minutes
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In thiis episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love ends without closure, when generosity turns into resentment, and when being “too nice” costs you clarity.
🎄 One woman is blindsided when her fiancé leaves the day after Christmas — no conversation, no explanation — after years of her supporting his dreams and building a shared life with her son.
💔 Another caller is labeled a “gold digger” after she refuses sex post-breakup — exposing how unhealed grief and emotional immaturity can masquerade as “nice guys.”
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| 0:00.0 | It's always the women. I see this so much. The women that are doing well, that have it, that are |
| 0:08.2 | come for money, that are wealthy. I have people in my life right now that are doing so well for |
| 0:15.7 | themselves. And you know what they say? I don't care that he's not a high earner. I don't care |
| 0:20.6 | that he's not. He cares. That is the thing. |
| 0:24.2 | You don't care that he doesn't have the money, but he cares and he will always care, which is why you should care. |
| 0:30.6 | You cannot give a man a fish who's not a fisherman. You try to build him a website. He resents you. |
| 0:38.6 | You try to help him get a job. |
| 0:42.0 | You try to give him six months of figuring him. |
| 0:44.5 | He's going to resent you. |
| 0:46.0 | Let me tell you this. |
| 0:47.8 | If you build a man up, okay? |
| 0:52.0 | He is going to want to see the, he's going to want to be with the woman who never saw him down. |
| 0:58.7 | I'm not telling what I heard. I'm telling what I know. If you build a man up, once he's up and he potentially stays up, he's going to want to be with the woman who never saw him down. |
| 1:30.0 | Hey all. Welcome back to Dear Hey y'all. |
| 1:32.2 | Welcome back to Deere Tasea. |
| 1:33.9 | We're jumping right into it. |
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