A tough love letter to leaders
Modern Mentor
Macmillan Holdings, LLC
4.3 • 726 Ratings
🗓️ 12 May 2026
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
896. Leaders right now are working hard, caring deeply and still coming up short. And some of what they're doing is quietly working against them. In this episode, Rachel delivers a tough love letter to the leaders she’s coaching, calling out four patterns that are quietly undermining performance, energy and trust. If something at work isn’t working, this one’s for you.
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| 0:00.0 | Let's be honest. Workplaces are a struggle right now. Performance is down, energy is low, |
| 0:24.3 | and most leaders know that something's not working. And this episode might sting a little bit. |
| 0:30.0 | But if you're ready to hear it, today I'm calling out four of the things that I'm seeing leaders |
| 0:35.0 | do with the best of intentions that are quietly making things |
| 0:38.6 | worse. |
| 0:40.1 | Hey, it's Rachel Cook, your modern mentor. |
| 0:43.2 | I'm the founder of Lead Above Noise, where we help leaders to work better by design. |
| 0:47.7 | You can reach out to me to speak at your next event and subscribe to my brand new Work Better |
| 0:52.1 | by Design email series at leadabovnoyce.com |
| 0:54.8 | slash email and find links to everything in the show notes. |
| 0:59.2 | So I've been working lately with a lot of leaders who are struggling to make things happen, |
| 1:04.2 | to turn performance around, to raise vibes, trigger innovation, connection, all the things |
| 1:09.8 | that keep work buzzing. And they think that their |
| 1:12.5 | issue is not knowing what to do. When really, they know, they just are afraid or maybe don't think |
| 1:19.5 | that they can. And so much of my job becomes not to reveal life's great mysteries, but to just |
| 1:26.4 | say the hard truths, like to call out what |
| 1:29.3 | they know they need to do, to invite them to look that old Einstein quote in the face and |
| 1:34.3 | acknowledge that if they keep on keeping on and expecting a different result, that is, as we know, |
| 1:40.5 | the very definition of insanity. So today's episode is a love letter to those leaders, |
| 1:46.8 | but it's some tough love, because sometimes the most loving things someone can offer is the thing |
| 1:52.5 | you need to hear, even if you already know it. So if you're a leader on the struggle bus, |
| 1:58.4 | today I want to call out four patterns that I'm seeing on repeat, |
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