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Welcome back to the podcast. Well this week we're going to talk about porn and payment.

We're going to talk about who pays for dates. And our mantra this week is going to be, I know my worth.

Now this is a tricky mantra emotionally.

You know, and it's one of those things

that like you see in like hair color commercials,

I know my worth, I'm worth it. But when you actually say it to yourself, it might feel a little hinky, like,

do I know my worth? I mean, I know I have worth and I know I'm worthy but do I and do I like know it?

Does it need to be like a specific amount like it's 15,687 dollars that that is my worth?

No.

To know your worth is the equivalent of knowing that you have it.

Just knowing that you have worth and value is enough.

It doesn't have to be so granular, you know, like it doesn't have to be that we know the

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