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It takes a disciplined spirit to endure the monastery on Mount Surat in Spain.

One of the fundamental requirements of this religious order is the young men must maintain silence.

Opportunities to speak are scheduled once every two years at which time they are allowed to speak only two words.

One young initiate in this religious order. allowed to speak only two words.

One young initiate in this religious order

who had completed his first two years of training

was invited by his superior to make his first two-word presentation.

His two words were food terrible he said two years later the

invitation was once again extended the young man used his opportunity to

say bed lumpy arriving at his Superior's office two years later, his two words were now,

I quit. The Superior looked at this young monk and said, you know, it doesn't surprise me a bit.

All you've done since you've arrived is

Complain, Complain, complain!

At the Mount Surratt Monastery, and all over our modern society,

it seems all anyone does these days is complain.

It's said the average person complains between 15 and 30 times a day.

Additional research shows that most people complain once a minute during a typical conversation.

So why are we so damn whiny these days?

Well, I blame weak parenting.

Overwhelmed and enabling parents gave their kids whatever the hell they wanted, if only

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