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Established Family Podcast

A Marriage Without the Holy Spirit is a Waste of Time

Established Family Podcast

Derek Palizay

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

5.0585 Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2026

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

This episode goes deep into the grief of God, the judgment of God, the mercy of God, and the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit in covenant.Through an exegetical walk from Genesis, Exodus, Jonah, Samuel, Hebrews, Romans, Galatians, Ephesians, and 2 Corinthians, we explore how the heart of the Father moves—and why so many marriages remain stuck in cycles of chaos when the Spirit is resisted.'


  • Can your marriage grieve God?
  • What does it mean to quench or resist the Holy Spirit?
  • The Hebrew word nacham: grief, relenting, comfort, and divine movement
  • Old Covenant judgment vs. New Covenant sanctification
  • Why behavior change without heart transformation fails
  • What truly pleases God in marriage
  • How the Holy Spirit forms righteousness within
  • Why healing requires repentance, faith, and inner transformation
  • The difference between flesh-governed marriage and Spirit-led covenant

Transcript

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What's going on to Established Family? In this episode of the Established Family podcast, we will be talking about why so many marriages remain in a place of unanswered questions concerning their marriage when they do not understand the relationship between the emotions of God and his overall judgment decisions and declarations. And we talk about why a marriage without the Holy Spirit is a waste of time. We have the Holy Spirit as an advocate on behalf of us as sons and daughters with Christ as the mediator. And the Holy Spirit only speaks of the will of the Father in the work of the Son. So we're going to talk about how that produces fruit inside of our marriage today and why this may be one of the most pivotal lessons that moves you away from communication tools and information and man-made systems and behavior modification and into the revelation necessary for breakthrough if you're in a crisis or in need of restoration or the next level of spiritual maturity and

0:54.9

growth if you are looking to get closer to God through the vehicle of marriage being positioned

0:59.8

for kingdom work. So let's hop into today's episode. Welcome back, Establish Family to another

1:04.9

episode of the Establish Family podcast. I'm glad to be back with you guys today. Today's episode

1:10.5

is titled A Marriage Without

1:12.3

the Holy Spirit is a Waste of Time. That is going to be our theme today. Hopefully the title

1:18.5

stays the same as well, but a marriage without the Holy Spirit is a waste of time. I'm going to

1:23.6

go ahead and hop right in. Glad to be back with you guys. Welcome back to social media followers.

1:28.0

Welcome back to the Established Family Newsletter.

1:30.2

Welcome back to Marriage Academy students and everybody who listens to the

1:33.7

Establish Family podcast or partakes in the resources on EstablishedFamily.com.

1:38.6

And let's hop into today's episode.

1:41.2

A lot of the questions that we are asking ourselves inside of our marriage are

1:47.9

primarily going to hinge on our understanding or our lack of revelation and understanding of the

1:54.6

relationship between God's emotions and the judgment of God. So the relationship that we have or the understanding of the relationship God has between

2:05.4

his emotions and his judgment.

2:08.8

And so many of us have our own fill in the blank questions we're asking at any stage of

2:13.5

marriage that we're in.

2:14.5

So we could be on the destructive side, the five stages that lead toward destruction,

2:18.3

or we could be on the path of marital growth.

2:21.6

And we may be asking questions like, does God approve of my marriage at any level, right?

2:26.9

Was it even a God-ordained marriage to begin with?

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