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The Art of Manliness

A Map for Finding Direction and Purpose in Life (Again and Again)

The Art of Manliness

The Art of Manliness

Philosophy, Society & Culture, Education

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2026

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

While we often think of life as linear, my guest’s own life, along with a decade of research, has taught him that it’s anything but. In his latest book, What to Make of a Life, Jim Collins unpacks the cyclical pattern life actually unfolds in, and how to navigate it. He explains how we all go through periods of “fog” — times of disorientation and uncertainty — at least three times: in youth, after a life-changing “cliff” event, and as we move through midlife into older age. We find our way out of these fogs by what Jim calls coming into “frame” — aligning what you're built to do with what you actually do in a way that feels enlivening and meaningful. And Jim unpacks the three elements that help you find, and re-find, this frame over the course of your life.

Along the way, Jim shares case studies of these principles at work, and we explore the role of luck, the inevitability of drudgery (even in work you love), and how to keep your inner fire lit over the long haul.


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0:00.0

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that's shopify.com slash manliness brett mackay here and welcome to another edition of the

1:03.2

aOM podcast which since 2008 has featured conversations with the world's best authors

1:07.6

thinkers and leaders that glean their edifying life-improving insights without the fluff and filler. The AOM podcast is just one part of the McKay mission to help individuals practice timeless virtues through thought, word, and deed. Also, be sure to explore our articles in Art of Manlius.com, read the deeper dives we do in our substack newsletter at dyingbreed.net and turn our content into real-world action

1:28.1

by joining the Strenuous Life program at StrenuousLife.com. Now on to the show.

1:36.4

While we often think of life as linear, my guest's own life, along with a decade of research, has taught him that it's anything but.

1:46.7

In his latest book, What to Make of a Life, Jim Collins impacts the cyclical pattern life actually unfolds in and how to navigate it.

1:53.3

He explains how we all go through periods of fog, times of disorientation and uncertainty at least three times, in youth, after a life-changing cliff event and as we move

2:01.9

through midlife into older age. We find our way out of these fogs by what Jim calls coming into frame,

2:07.5

aligning what you're built to do with what you actually do in a way that feels enlivening and meaningful.

2:12.3

And Jim impacts the three elements that help you find and refine this frame over the course of your

2:16.3

life. Along the way, Jim shares case studies of these principles at work, and we explore the role of luck,

2:21.5

the inevitability of drudgery, even in work you love, and how to keep your inner fire lit over the long haul.

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