A Man's Guide To Being Naturally Attractive
ManTalks Podcast
Connor Beaton
4.8 • 591 Ratings
🗓️ 30 January 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Talking points: mindset, attraction, relationships
I was surprised at the sheer volume of basic advice there is out there on being a more attractive man. This week, we're going to go a little beyond "hit the gym" and "smoke less". How do you build your attractiveness from the inside out AND stay authentically you? Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Be untameable—somewhat
(00:09:50) - Develop emotional sovereignty
(00:12:11) - Develop direction and discipline
(00:14:14) - Have some non-negotiables. Please.
(00:17:39) - Be unapologetically you. Note: this requires serious work on figuring out who you actually are
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| 0:00.0 | All right, team, welcome back to the Man Talk Show. |
| 0:07.1 | Today, we're going to be talking about a man's guide to being naturally attractive, |
| 0:11.5 | whether you are single or you're dating. |
| 0:15.2 | Maybe you're married, whichever one. |
| 0:17.1 | Don't forget to man it forward. |
| 0:18.6 | Share this episode with somebody that you know needs to hear it or enjoy it. All right, let's get into it. I've been wanting to do this for a while. I've had a lot of guys ask me about what, you know, creates attraction. And I'm not going to speak on women's behalf necessarily. And I'm not going to talk to you about the normal crap, right? I think I've watched a whole bunch of videos in preparation for this. And it was, |
| 0:37.5 | it was almost mind-numbing how much of the crap out there is so basic. It's like, yes, |
| 0:42.5 | do all the obvious things, you know, move out of your mom's basement, stop vaping or smoking |
| 0:48.5 | so much weed and drinking off after eating a bag of potato chips all the time, go to the gym, |
| 0:53.9 | you know, make some money, |
| 0:55.8 | learn about money, like yes to all those basic things. But there's more to attraction than just |
| 1:01.4 | that. And that's what I want to talk about today. I want to talk about what actually creates |
| 1:06.4 | real attraction. And some of the things are probably not what you think they are. So let's just |
| 1:11.3 | start with number one. Be untamable. Be somewhat untamable. Now, this is a little bit of a different |
| 1:19.3 | take on attraction. But when you look at something like a billion wicked thoughts, which is a book |
| 1:25.2 | that, you know, these sort of Google analytic nerds put together, |
| 1:28.9 | which, by the way, there's no hate on the nerds and the geeks. I love them. I've worked with many of them. I'm not one because my brain doesn't work like that. But shout out to all the geeks and the nerds out there. We love you. Thank you so much. I mean, at one point, I worked for Best Buy and they literally had something called Geek Squad, which I always loved. I was like, man, |
| 1:45.8 | you guys were just owning it. Anyway, B. At one point, I worked for Best Buy, and they literally had something called Geek Squad, which I always loved. |
| 1:45.4 | I was like, man, you guys are just owning it. Anyway, be untamable. Be somewhat untamable. Why is this |
| 1:51.4 | important? When you look at something like a billion wicked thoughts, the Google engineers, |
| 1:56.4 | what they were looking at was a whole bunch of different data points for what people were searching |
| 1:59.5 | for, and they stumbled across this interesting piece around women's desires, women's fantasies. |
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