A Little Happier: Don’t Look Before You Take That Bite
Happier with Gretchen Rubin
Lemonada Media
4.7 • 13.2K Ratings
🗓️ 20 April 2026
⏱️ 2 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Lemonada. |
| 0:02.7 | I'm Gretchen Rubin, and this is a little happier. |
| 0:08.9 | I love a teaching story, and my mother loves a good teaching story almost as much as I do. |
| 0:16.0 | Recently, she told me one that I'd never heard before. It's a short but very powerful story. When I did a |
| 0:22.7 | little research, I learned that this story is drawn from the Sufi tradition of teaching tales. |
| 0:27.8 | It's an old and famous story, told with many variation. So here is my version. Once upon a time, |
| 0:36.2 | far away, there lived a man who needed to make a long journey across the desert. |
| 0:40.3 | He packed up provisions for a week of travel, but after a few days, bandits rode up and robbed him, |
| 0:46.3 | and all he had left was a small bag containing three dates. |
| 0:51.3 | Those three dates were the only food he had until he reached his destination. |
| 0:56.0 | He tried to resist eating them as long as he could, but one night he was so hungry that he lit a |
| 1:01.1 | candle, pulled out a date, and took a bite. He noticed that the date had a worm inside, and so |
| 1:07.2 | bitterly disappointed, he threw away the date. |
| 1:17.5 | The next night, he lit a candle, took a bite out of a date, and alas, again, he discovered a worm. |
| 1:20.9 | He threw it away and went to sleep hungrier than ever. |
| 1:26.9 | On the third night, he didn't light a candle before he pulled out the date. |
| 1:32.8 | This story is a great reminder that sometimes it's time to light a candle. |
| 1:36.8 | Sometimes it's time to eat in the dark. |
| 1:40.9 | I'm Gretchen Rubin, and I hope this makes your week a little happier. |
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