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A Girl in a Patriarchy w/ Lola Binkerd

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IndoctriNation

Religion & Spirituality

4.8566 Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Lola Binkerd is an Author and Actress who was born and raised as a fourth-generation member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormon) in Salt Lake City, Utah. She has lived in Los Angeles for 16 years and her horror anthology "The River God and Other Stories" and short story "4-H" are available as eBooks on Gumroad and Amazon. Lola shares with Rachel her experiences as a child growing up in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and explains how those experiences have affected her as an adult. She describes the toxic effects of raising girls to believe blind obedience and total self-sacrifice are feminine virtues, and how teaching girls to marry and defer to the right kind of man sets them up to be the victims of narcissists and high-control groups, even if they leave the religion/group itself. Before You Go: Rachel expands on Lola's childhood experience of being made to feel that her needs are secondary to those perceived to be higher up in the religious hierarchy of the church. She compares it to her own childhood experiences as the "baby" of the family and how it affected her relationships as an adult. Thanks to our newest Patreon supporters: Kate Donnellon, The MLM Police, Kara Fink, James Gussen, Joseph Carpenito, and Jennifer MacPherson Help support the show at: https://www.patreon.com/indoctrination To get in touch with Rachel please write her at indoctrinationshow@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

Welcome to indoctrination, a weekly conversation series about protecting yourself from systems of control.

0:11.1

I'm your host, Rachel Bernstein.

0:13.8

I want to wish you all a very happy New Year.

0:17.5

I hope this new year proves to be one that brings with it a feeling of sanity and health and healing

0:31.9

and healing and is a year where you reach out for help if you need it,

0:38.3

and you reach out to help others when they need it,

0:42.8

and that others will reach out to you to offer you help

0:46.8

so that you don't actually have to ask for it.

0:50.9

I see that always as a gift to give somebody else. And I hope that it is one that is safe

1:00.1

for you and for your families. And for anyone who has dealt with a loss due to COVID or anything else,

1:10.0

I hope, again, that this year brings with it more

1:16.1

happiness not as much sadness and worry as last year did for many many people

1:22.9

and if you want to go to patreon.com slash indoctrination to keep our podcast going for this next year,

1:34.9

we would appreciate any amount of support. It really is something that we rely on the listeners and

1:43.0

supporters to keep going because I provide it as a public service.

1:50.5

So go to patreon.com slash indoctrination and become a subscriber.

1:56.7

And if you already are one, if you're already a supporter, and I wholeheartedly appreciate it,

2:01.8

you can also move up a tier and go on to Patreon,

2:06.3

and it will guide you to let you know how to do that.

2:15.4

For today, I want to be able to introduce my guest, Lola Binkard, who is going to be speaking

2:26.1

with you today and also next week. Lola goes by she, her pronouns, is an author and actress, and she was born and raised,

2:39.7

fourth generation member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the Mormon Church,

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