I'm 24 and met an 18-year-old girl whose father died a month ago.

Should I try to take her out or let her go?

You should take her out.

I mean, she just lost her dad, her main source of masculinity.

I assume she had a tight relationship with him.

Take her on and show her a good time.

Because, you know, she probably spent plenty of days being home, being miserable.

If you could take her out and make her laugh and forget about what just happened and be in the

moment and make her smile and laugh and giggle, that's how magic happens.

You know, you're able to remove her from. She can stay at home and cry or be

upset or she can go out and live her life. And so take her out. If she likes you and she's open to it,

she'll go out with you. There's a lot of guys think of that situation, oh, I'm going to wait six

months and I'll be her friend and I'll buy her things and I'll tell her how much

I care about her and it'll be Mr. Nice Guy.

And then meanwhile, three months later, they find out that she's sleeping with some other guy

who was a little more aggressive and took charge and led her because it's, I mean, at the

end of the day, especially when you're in a

relationship or a long-term relationship really a lot of it is just existing together what you do

day in day out going to bed together waking up in the morning together showering together

going and doing fun things together hanging out with friends family or just sitting hanging out

watching TV at night,

unwinding after the day. So you got to get out there and participate in life. And if she's suffering and then she's like, well, my dad just, I was like, you know what? You need to get out of

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