Hi everybody welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer

regrets I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide and today we're talking about the

American Dream and you know what the American Dream is the American Dream is the ability to Dream is the ability to do what you want to do,

when you want to do it, with whom you want to do it, and of course have the money to pay for it.

And honestly, I hope all of your American dreams come true.

But there's one thing, there's one thing you

should know is you pursue that dream and that one thing is the one thing we're

talking about today right here on your move. Stick around. Stick around. Hi everybody, I have some great news for all the women in the audience.

Today's message is for all the men in the audience.

Married, single, young, not so young,

fathers, want to be fathers, may be scared,

you might be a father.

Anyway, as men, I think we all have something in common.

There is an underlying, often, I think, overlooked component in our pursuit of success.

And to be clear, I don't think this is unique to men,

but the successful women I know seem to have a way better handle on this

than most of us do.

And this unspoken, sometimes unrecognized component to our quest for success is this word.

Autonomy. Autonomy. There's something I think in most of us that wants to be

self-governing, right? I mean after all to some extent it's the American dream or at least the way the American dream has been

presented to most of us I think for most of us men is pretty much our definition of

success right I mean to do what I, to do what I want to do,

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