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I wonder if you've ever felt that you were stuck doing all the work while your

spouse was sitting over on the couch, either watching TV or scrolling through

the phone or the otherwise occupied. That could be pretty frustrating. I'm the

only one. How do you respond? I'm John Fuller joined by Dr. Greg Smolley and

his wife Aaron and they lead the marriage team here at Focus on the family. And

I'm sure that you know somebody who's had that kind of a struggle. I mean just

beyond me there's somebody else you know who has had that kind of a problem. We

have those struggles all the time but it was funny when I was thinking about

this actually a situation with my parents came to mind because it's truly still

one of my most favorite stories about my parents and it happened over things

giving. Oh well times we were at their house for Thanksgiving and you could tell

that they weren't didn't wake up so connected so thankful for each other on

Thanksgiving and his mom was in the kitchen preparing getting preparations made

for food and Greg and his dad and our son Gearsson were watching football. That's

what we were thankful for. Yeah and you could just tell his mom wanted his

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