A Complete List Of Red Flags

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

On today’s full solo episode, I list all and any red flags when you’re dating someone new or more seriously dating. But don’t worry, we end on a good note with green flags! Then, I discuss how to get deep with a partner and give some sample questions you can ask each other in order to do so.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.5	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. It is the middle of the month and I am so excited
0:14.2	that we have a solo for you today. So I did a vote on what I should talk about in this month's
0:21.6	solo and it was pretty close between how to get deep with a partner and red flags and green
0:29.7	flags when first dating. So I'm going to try to combine the two. Starting with, you know,
0:39.0	whenever someone's like, do you want, like, I have good news and bad news, what do you want first?
0:42.3	You always want the bad news first, right? And that's actually a good pull question I'm going to ask
0:47.0	because you want to end on a good note, right? Like, you want to end on a high of that good news.
0:53.7	So I figured we'd start with red flags and while I was doing research for this, I actually discovered
1:00.6	a list that I made after I broke up with my ex about red flags that I have. So I'm going to read
1:07.9	some that I wrote and then I'm going to read some that you guys had submitted way back when I had
1:16.8	asked you some red flags to look out for when dating. And so these kind of, they vary between
1:24.7	when you're newly dating, but also like when you're dating. So they can come up really whenever
1:29.7	it's just like, you know, look out for them. And so the ones that I had said that my red flags are
1:36.3	the following. The first one is refusing to make plans in months ahead. This is something that I,
1:46.9	it has nothing to do with my one specific ex. All of these have to do with all of the people I
1:52.0	have dated in the past that ended up being red flaggy or not working out with, not to say that
1:59.1	they're red flags as in general as people know, like they can be great for other people. But for me,
2:05.3	this, these were things that I needed to pay attention to that were very indicative of this not
2:13.2	working out in the long term refusing to make plans in months ahead. You know, it relates to
2:19.2	being somebody who is afraid of commitment and sometimes people can overcome that and they can
2:27.6	come out from the other side. I don't want to have to do that. And I don't want you guys to have
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