"Anyone can pull a trigger. It is very easy to kill somebody. But there is a domain of war that needs to have an unconventional aspect to it. Green Berets thrive when dropped behind enemy lines, in hostile areas, and have to think through the implications of taking the shot... Are we creating a village of potential terrorists? Or can we talk to the village leader? It is riskier. But maybe we can use respect, humor, and rapport. Maybe we can do this instead of pulling the trigger.” - Ryan Hendrickson Why inspired Ryan to write “Tip of the Spear” in the first place? Why will an ethos of “we” always win over “me” on the battlefield and in life? Is the team mentality of “we” something that can be learned? Why is it better to not make the cut than to give up on yourself? Where did Ryan find the resilience to complete Green Berets basic training? Why, after 27 reconstructive surgeries and a qualification for medical retirement, did Ryan decide to go back to Afghanistan? How can empathy build stronger communities? Service and Grit Stepping on an improvised explosive device, nearly losing his leg, 27 surgeries, and even a medical retirement could not keep Sergeant First Class Ryan Hendrickson from returning to the battlefield. A Green Beret whose determination is matched only by his courage, Ryan has never left a man behind. In over two decades of service, he has earned the Silver Star, four Bronze Stars, a Purple Heart, and an Army Commendation Medal with Valor. His harrowing story is nothing short of extraordinary. While it began as expressive therapy, Ryan’s written account provides an outlet for soldiers and civilians alike. His captivating memoir “Tip of The Spear: The Incredible Story of an Injured Green Beret’s Return to Battle” is as much a recount of military life as an exploration of the battles within. In this episode, Ryan discusses why mental toughness outweighs physical stamina, pushing beyond the edge, overcoming regret, and the power of accountability. Turning Trauma Into Stronger Communities Trauma can never be forgotten or undone. Learning to live with the past is to recognize that we all experience pain as well as to acknowledge our shared humanity. Ryan believes that the real beauty in life comes when we meet these struggles honestly. The pain is a beacon for self improvement and, in turn, a way to connect and empathize with others. Empathy is the key to transforming personal suffering into a space for healing for others and ourselves. “The fact of the matter is you can never undo the past. It will always be there. You can never make something not happen. It will always be a part of you. Use your experience to impact others.” - Ryan Hendrickson Key Takeaways: Accept what is. Enjoy life by letting go of expectations. Though life is not fair, we can work for and create the life we want. Don't quit. Encountering great obstacles may seem to complicate life. However, it is the simplicity in choosing to continue that carries us through the challenge. Help others. We all experience hardship. Helping others is the ultimate salve for life’s wounds. Links and Resources The Game Changing Attorney Podcast Michael Mogill Facebook Michael Mogill Twitter Michael Mogill Instagram Michael Mogill LinkedIn Crisp Website Crisp Facebook Crisp Twitter Crisp Instagram Crisp LinkedIn Ryan Hendrickson Website Ryan Hendrickson LinkedIn Ryan Hendrickson Twitter Tip of The Spear: The Incredible Story of an Injured Green Beret’s Return to Battle