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Shameless Leadership

964: LEADERSHIP STORIES: How to Leverage Curiosity to Create Connection as a Leader

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Self-improvement, How To, Business, Management, Education

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

"Sara, I tried one little thing you recommended in our session and it totally changed my interaction with a team member!" Back story…I was leading a training for a leadership team recently and we talked about how to practice active listening in leadership.  One of the leaders decided to put one of my recommendations into action immediately (Gold Star for this leader!) and he was so excited about the results.  Following our training, he shifted his default behavior of “getting right down to business” in a one-on-one meeting to starting off a one-on-one by asking a team member an open-ended question.  This led to a great conversation and important insights between the two of them.  By getting curious before getting down to business, this leader fast-tracked trust and paved the way for open and honest communication with their team member.  He was giddy sharing this win with me.  I love it when new behaviors lead to new wins!  Curiosity is one of the most underrated, yet most powerful, leadership skills you can develop. In this episode, we dig into how curiosity can completely shift the way you lead, communicate, and connect with others. Whether you’re managing up, collaborating across, or leading your team, curiosity opens up space for real conversation, minimizes assumptions, and builds relationships that feel grounded in care and respect. When you lead with curiosity, you create connection instead of disconnection, and you let the people around you truly shine. In this episode, I walk you through five ways to use curiosity to become a more emotionally intelligent leader. We’ll talk about how to ask before assuming, how to get curious about motivations instead of just outcomes, and how curiosity can bridge differences when perspectives clash. You’ll also learn how to replace performance check-ins with curiosity-driven conversations that make your people feel seen and supported, and why modeling curiosity publicly builds trust and psychological safety at every level of your organization. Ultimately, curiosity helps you become a leader who doesn’t just manage people — but inspires them. Tune in to discover how a few thoughtful questions can transform the way you collaborate, innovate, communicate, and lead. Links Mentioned: [NOVEMBER 20th] Join my 90-minute Leadership Roundtable, Thriving in Leadership in Uncertain Times: saradean.com/roundtable [OPEN ENROLLMENT] Join Sara’s Aligned Leadership Incubator: saradean.com/aligned Hire me to speak: saradean.com/speaking Coach with me: https://saradean.com/executive-coaching-services Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saradeanspeaks Watch Shameless Leadership episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@saradeanspeaks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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welcome to shameless leadership i'm your host sarah dean this show is for women, transgender people, non-binary folks, as well as allies, who are committed to advancing their leadership while also advancing the leadership of those around them. In each episode, we will offer practical tips, leadership strategies, and inspiring stories to help you become a more confident, compassionate,

0:55.1

and inclusive leader. The truth is, you were born to lead. What might happen for you if you

1:00.6

were to wholeheartedly embrace that part of yourself? So let's start now, together.

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Hello, shameless leaders. Today we're talking about the power of leveraging curiosity to create

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connection in your leadership. And this whole episode is inspired by a situation I had with a coaching

1:18.0

client recently that just love me feeling so let up. Because sometimes you have those moments

1:23.4

where you give someone a tool and then they go and use it and they have this amazing results and

1:28.5

you just think, oh, yes, this is why I do what I do. And so I think that many of you can probably

1:33.6

relate to that feeling. I'm feeling like lit up by your work and feeling like you can see the

1:38.6

impact that your work has and the ripples that it creates. And that's just, it makes the hard days

1:43.8

and work feel well worth it right when we

1:47.4

can see that the work that we do has impact so I recently led a training for a group of leaders

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an executive leadership team and in part of that training we were talking about cultivating

1:58.4

emotional intelligence what are the components of that what are the steps involved and one of the things we were talking about as part emotional intelligence, what are the components of that, what are the

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steps involved? And one of the things we were talking about as part of that was communication

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and how we can use curiosity and communication, how we can open up communication in different

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ways so that the people that we're in conversation with can feel seen and heard and held and

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