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The Kristen Boss Podcast

95. Two Words to Ditch Forever

The Kristen Boss Podcast

Kristen Boss

Education, Business, How To, Entrepreneurship, Marketing

4.9751 Ratings

🗓️ 21 February 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

How many times have you uttered the words should or need when talking about your network marketing business? I should post more, I should engage with more people. I need to hit the next rank, I need to create my systems. Have you ever noticed what feelings come up when you start with the shoulds and needs? If you’re being honest then I’m betting it isn’t all sunshine and rainbows.

 

The words should and need are two words Kristen thinks you can ditch, ASAP. The negative space you sit in when using these two words isn’t serving you, your team or your audience. Listen in as she explains how using should and need affects you and what it’s causing you to miss out on.

 

Here are some highlights:

  • Why the word should invites guilt into your mindset
  • How “should language” robs us of being present and feeling joy in the moment
  • The connection between mom guilt and the words should and need
  • The emotions that come up when saying the word need
  • Why it’s important to meet your needs before your business needs in order to cut out the scarcity mindset that comes along with “I need”

 

It might seem silly to think that using two little words can have such a big impact on your mindset, but when you complete the thought that begins with “I need” or “I should” you can start to unravel and understand how it might be holding you back. Instead think of what you could be doing, or what you want instead of what you should or need. 

 

Thanks for listening! Do you have a question about network marketing? Kristen can help! Drop your question here, and she just might answer it live on the podcast: https://Kristenboss.com/question

 

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If you’re ready to learn the simple process of running your social selling business online, you have to check out Kristen’s live group coaching program! The Social Selling Academy: www.thesocialsellingacademy.com

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey there. I know if you're like a lot of my listeners, you're listening here week after week,

0:09.5

maybe binging my podcast and trying to take all the notes and really implement it into your

0:14.5

business. But here's the thing. There's something between knowing what to do and actually doing

0:19.1

and following through and trying to piece everything

0:21.3

together on your own. Well, you don't have to do that. I don't want you struggling any more than you

0:25.3

have to be, which is why I want you to check out the hub. The hub is the ultimate place for you

0:29.5

to learn the foundational habits and skills, such as connecting, building relationships,

0:34.3

writing content, and how to sell without filling icky in the online space.

0:38.4

It is the ultimate place for you to learn the sustainable habits and business skills in the

0:42.8

social selling space. The other offer you need to look at is if you are ready to expand into

0:47.5

your cold market, grow your audience, learn the skills of lead generation, talking to a target

0:52.3

market, and learn sustainable business strategies

0:54.6

that really are evergreen, no matter what business model you're in, you're going to want

0:58.6

to check out the Social Selling Academy. The links are in the show notes. Of course, we have all

1:02.5

kinds of testimonials because I've helped thousands of students just like you. So be sure to

1:06.6

check that out. Now, back to the show.

1:21.8

Thank you. that out. Now, back to the show. Welcome to Purposeful Social Selling with Kristen Boss. I'm your host, Kristen Boss. I'm a mindset and business coach

1:29.1

with more than 15 years experience in both the product and service-based industries.

1:33.9

I believe that social selling is the best business model for people wanting to make an impact

1:38.3

while they make serious income. This is the podcast for the social seller who is tired of feeling

1:43.6

and authentic in their business

1:44.9

and desires to find a more purposeful and profitable way of growing their business in today's

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