anyone in any relationship right now friendship, friendship, romantic, anything, I need you to think of

who they are on their worst day and ask yourself if who they are on their worst day is someone

you should be with. If you are judging who they are on their best day,

if that's, yeah, you know, three times a year,

he shows up as the best version of himself

when we're on vacation and everything's going great,

and then I feel like I'm in love with him again.

That's not legit.

Who are they on their worst day?

That's what you need to be honest with yourself about.

Hey guys, I'm Rachel Hollis, and this is the show where we talk about life, real life.

Around here, we cover everything, from habits and motivation to relationships, parenting,

and what it looks like to build a life that you love. If you're trying to grow, heal, or just feel a little bit more like yourself,

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Okay, guys, I want to ask you something, and I want you to sit with this for a minute before

you just kind of rush by it. Is there something in your life right now,

whether it's a relationship or a job or a business that you started, just any kind of path

that you're currently on that you know isn't working? Now, I'm not talking about like a hunch or a bad feeling that

you had or, you know, you're just having a bad week. I am talking about that deep knowing

that you have had for a while, that you keep talking yourself out of and that you have explained away

so many times you've lost count.

Okay, so now here's the deal.

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