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Shameless Leadership

932: LEADERSHIP TIPS: Your Leadership Doesn’t Have to Be Loud to Be Heard

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Education, Management, How To, Business, Self-improvement

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

I'm here to share something that might give you great relief.    Your leadership doesn’t have to be loud to be LOUD. When I’m working with leaders and people who are developing leadership skills, there is a common misconception that you have to get louder in volume to be heard.  By volume, I mean auditory volume and quantity.  People assume they have to speak in a louder voice and/or say more things all the time.   To become a better leader, you might not need to do either of these things.   Instead, you need to determine what style of leadership is authentic for you in this season of life.   When I owned my gym, I became a better leader by quieting my voice to make space for my trainers to showcase theirs.  I sat back and let them shine by teaching more classes than me and by letting each of them find their own voice and leadership style in their classes.   As a result, I was able to work behind the scenes to focus on expanding our membership community, create more programming and offers, and build out a strong and stable backend to the business so that my trainers had job security and our members felt supported by all the leaders on my team instead of feeling reliant solely on me for their success.   In this season, I was also a new mom.  My quieter, BTS leadership allowed me to be home and present with my son.  This was an incredible season of growth for my business, my trainers, and our community.  And, I didn’t have to get louder.  I just had to get more clear on my role in leading my trainers so they could help me build a phenomenal community.  Which they did!   Instead of thinking about how you need to become some loudest-in-the-room, always-speaking-up, and being-seen-doing-all-the-things kind of leader, perhaps you could think about: What is the impact you want to have? What do you want to build? Who do you want to empower to build with you? What values do you most want to uphold in this season? What is your leadership secret sauce (that thing about the way you lead that calls people in and keeps them motivated to work alongside you)? As you consider how you want to grow as a leader, think about the skill sets and mindsets you need to develop.  Maybe this is getting louder.  But, maybe it’s about getting more quiet?  Maybe it’s about getting more clear about where you want to go and how you want to get there. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Redefining Loud Leadership 02:55 Authenticity in Leadership Styles 06:09 Empowering Others in Leadership 08:59 The Importance of Collaboration 11:47 Finding Your Unique Leadership Voice 15:10 Building a Leadership Legacy Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to shameless leadership. I'm your host, Sarah Dean. This show is for women, transgender people, non-binary folks, as well as allies, who are committed to advancing their leadership while also advancing the leadership of those around them. In each episode, we will offer practical tips, leadership strategies, and inspiring

0:22.0

stories to help you become a more confident, compassionate, and inclusive leader. The truth is,

0:27.5

you were born to lead. What might happen for you if you were to wholeheartedly embrace that

0:32.3

part of yourself? So let's start now, together. Hello, shameless leaders. Today, I want to talk about something that I think might give you relief.

0:41.3

So one of the things I talk a lot about when I'm talking about leadership is being loud in your leadership.

0:46.3

And sometimes when I say this in group settings, group settings of any size, I see some of the people who aren't naturally loud and boisterous and super outgoing get a little

0:56.0

timid, reserved, maybe even like shrink back or sit back a bit because they're like,

1:00.6

that's not me. Being super loud is not me. And one of the things I want to clarify is that there

1:06.5

are so many ways to be loud in your leadership that don't have anything to do with the volume of your

1:12.6

voice or how much space you take up in terms of, you know, holding court in a room full of people.

1:19.9

I think that it's easy to confuse leadership with being the loudest in the room, and we've all

1:25.2

been in places where the loudest person in the room has been

1:27.5

a horrible leader. And I mean, we can think of examples in celebrity. We can think of examples

1:33.0

in politics. We can think of examples in our workplaces. We can think of examples in our families

1:37.5

where the loudest person in the room, not necessarily the best leader, but we assume that there's

1:41.8

this natural correlation there. And sometimes there's

1:44.6

not. When I think about some of the people who have demonstrated the most impactful, beautiful,

1:51.1

intentional leadership to me over the course of my life, they often are not the loudest in the room.

1:56.4

They're the most thoughtful and strategic. And they're strategic and how they talk about the things that

2:01.5

they want to talk about. They're strategic and how they uphold their values in a way that attract

2:06.0

people to go with them. And that's what I want for you. I want you to be able to uphold your values

2:11.2

and your mission and the work that means the most to you that is most meaningful to you in a way

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