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Hey guys, welcome back to the handlebar podcast. I'm so excited to do an episode with just you, Marcella.

This is so exciting. I'm so excited. I know. It feels like girl time.

Seriously. We were just talking about getting manicures and pedicures. So let's go.

All right. Should we jump in to the question? It's a really good question. So this question is from an anonymous 20-year-old from San Francisco. And the question is is how do you get over a person you've

never dated and Aaron and Rafi did a part one to this episode you can go find it watching on

YouTube but Marcella and I thought we'd take take it from a girl's perspective I love that so

let's do it I'm going to set a timer. So we stay on track here.

All right, Marcella.

How do you get over someone that you've never dated?

I love that.

You went Marcella first?

Yeah.

Honestly, go back and listen to Rafi and Aaron because I did.

And I love the way instantly it was like any sort of fantasy or illusion is dangerous.

Yeah. Because, well, first of all, it's not real.

So anything that's not real can become a danger um and so just

thinking about that not having clarity from the beginning is not his ways because he when i think

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