91: Your "RICH" Will Be Different
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
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🗓️ 18 January 2018
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
My Two Cents today is based on a conversation I had the other day with a buddy of mine. To sum it up, we discussed how when spending time with a friend (someone who has crushed it in business), there are times when you walk away from it questioning their actions or how they treated others, ultimately fearing that you too will become a certain way when you reach their level.
It's only natural to reflect on their behavior, but I'm here to tell you that you need to stop.
"Your rich is not their rich."
Money doesn't change people, but it can magnify who you already are. For example, if you're kind to everybody, treat others with respect and genuinely have a genuine desire to help people, when you become more successful, you're going to do more of that. The same thing is true if you feel entitled, disrespect others and only care about yourself – it will magnify that too.
Don't worry about what's coming up next – no matter where you are. Stay true to who YOU are.
"Root down in who you really are and who you've been up that point, and live in your truth."
If you're living in your truth you can get out and pursue wealth without fear of what it will look like to others. And as I eluded to above, if you're not caught up in the wrong crowd and you don't have hurtful thoughts now, you're not likely to have a problem down the road when success is knocking at your door.
But I get that fears will naturally arise. And when they do, I want you to stop, acknowledge it and reframe it. Remind yourself (picture it too) how you'll feel and what you'll do when that next level comes.
"It's not the destination that changes you, it's the person taking the journey to the destination that can cause that."
If you love you, with more wealth and success, you'll only love yourself more. So get out there without fear and do great things!
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- That money only magnifies who you are now
- Why it's important to get rooted in your truth
- How to confront and reframe fears about making more money
Resources:
For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome everybody this is for the love of money where we are making you |
| 0:08.6 | unapologetic about your pursuit of success by sharing the tools, tips, and stories of those who have already made it. |
| 0:16.5 | My name is Chris Harder, and each week I will bring you incredible guests |
| 0:21.2 | in order to prove that when good people make good money they do great things. |
| 0:32.3 | Welcome back everybody to another mini episode of For the Love of Money episodes that I love to call my two cents and the two cents that I'm weighing on in today is based off a conversation I had with a buddy recently and I titled it |
| 0:45.8 | They're Rich is not your rich and what I really mean by that is when you have an |
| 0:50.5 | experience with somebody else who has absolutely crushed it financially and you |
| 0:56.3 | walk away from that experience maybe thinking oh maybe it doesn't look so good they don't |
| 1:01.4 | seem happy or when you walk away from that saying |
| 1:04.1 | oh they kind of act like a jerk maybe I don't want that much money or when you walk away saying |
| 1:09.7 | I hate how they treat other people now like that that makes me feel skeasy, you know, |
| 1:14.4 | maybe I don't want to get to that level. |
| 1:16.9 | You've got to stop because your rich |
| 1:20.4 | is going to be very different than they're rich. |
| 1:22.6 | And here's what I mean. |
| 1:23.6 | Money is just a magnifier of who you already are. |
| 1:26.6 | And so if you already have those tendencies to not treat people well, |
| 1:30.6 | they're just going to be magnified. |
| 1:32.1 | But instead, if you have the tendencies to |
| 1:34.4 | treat people with so much love and respect today, then you're only going to treat |
| 1:39.4 | them with that much more love and that much more respect when you have the ability to do so in a much |
| 1:44.8 | bigger way. So if you treat people like they owe you something that'll just get magnified, but if you treat people with a servant's heart and that you want to do things for them, then that too will get magnified. |
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