Ladies, there are nine things that I wish that women knew about men just a little bit sooner.

How do I know this? Because every three or four months, we host an event here in Boston,

where our clients fly in from all around the world, and they tend to be, you know, in the 50s,

60s, or 70s age range. And by the end of the weekend, they always say this one thing. And that is, Adam, why didn't I learn this information about men sooner? It would have saved me so much heartbreak, so much pain. I wouldn't have married that narcissistic sociopath that I was with for 20 years. And so I want to be able to share a lot of this information that we share at these types

of events to really set you up for success.

Because nobody really teaches us how to love.

It's crazy to me that there is no course in high school or even middle school that teaches

love education.

They might teach sex education, but do they really teach us

how to avoid the red flags, how to deal with heartbreak, how to avoid giving too much in relationships

or mistaking intensity for intimacy? Well, let me sum up everything in this short video with

these nine truths. The first one is that you never, ever have to prove your worth in a relationship.

If a guy is ever telling you, I'm not sure if you're a good fit for me, I'm not sure if I'm

ready for a relationship.

Ladies, this is not an invitation to try harder.

It isn't.

It's an invitation to find someone better, say that magical four-letter

word, which is next and move on to the next. And I used to fall into this trap myself. I remember

back when I was in my 20s, you know, I wasn't necessarily looking for love, but I was looking to

meet women and date and have a great time. I mean, I was a guy in my 20s. Come on. But I remember

going back in time, anytime a woman would show a lack of interest in me, it would be my cue

to just lean in so hard because I'm a competitive guy. Like, I don't like to lose. I don't like

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