My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm Sheena Lache, Love Edition coach and

trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

I have what I think is going to be a really great episode.

I think they're all great, but I'm really excited about this one

based on the notes that I wrote, based on the questions that you asked, based on just

the title itself about how to avoid a victim mentality in relationships.

Some of us may have a victim mentality and not even know we have it.

Some of us may have a hint or inkling,

and this episode will hopefully help you identify it

and give you some clear steps on what to do on the other side.

But I'm just excited to dig into it but before I do that I want to acknowledge for those of you who are listening to this episode in real time that

there has been a gap in between episodes and some of you are like well that's

normal sheena and some of you are like nah it's been a real a real gap what had

happened was I had a whole baby so those of you who don't follow me on social media this is new

information that I my son Aidan Deshantubs beautiful baby boy, came a couple months early.

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