#87: Connecting to Black Women After Being Rejected for Not Being Black Enough
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 11 February 2021
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
If you grew up in a mostly white or non-black setting and experienced peer trauma for "not being Black enough," sometimes it shows up as fear of rejection from other black women as an adult. In this episode, we talk about that, some items to keep in mind, and steps to take to heal and work through that.
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| 0:00.0 | My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crooks to get |
| 0:14.4 | more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:19.9 | is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means |
| 0:27.3 | to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders |
| 0:34.1 | and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others. |
| 0:39.6 | Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow |
| 0:45.2 | in your software. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:51.6 | Hello ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. It feels so good to be |
| 0:59.9 | recording this with my computer with my microphone. I had been stalking my computer repair guy |
| 1:08.6 | because I was like I need my computer back and I did not want to record another episode on my phone |
| 1:15.6 | where I couldn't edit it or be able to actually take my time with it. So thank you Ed. Shout |
| 1:24.0 | out to you for withstanding all of my phone calls because it is why I'm able to get you this |
| 1:32.1 | episode out on this Thursday. So I hope that you're doing well. I hope that you're taking care |
| 1:39.0 | of yourself. I hope that you are surrounding yourself with people who love you and I hope that if |
| 1:45.2 | you clicked on this episode, whether you are a regular listener at Black Girl's Hill or not, |
| 1:50.9 | I hope that you find the content helpful. So here in this podcast I talk to Black women who struggle |
| 1:58.7 | with intimacy disorders and attachment and one of the things that I really highlight and especially |
| 2:05.0 | in last week's Gorilla recorded episode which I'm going to go back and add the intro and everything |
| 2:12.2 | later on. So if you see that that episode is categorized as a new episode in your feed in the |
| 2:18.4 | next days or a week, it's the same episode. I'll probably cut some things out, add some things to it |
| 2:26.0 | but just so you know you're not, you did listen to it if you listened to it already. Not the point. |
| 2:32.8 | In this podcast, I talk about how important it is to have healthy connections with other people |
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