if it happens to you enough, you second guess everything that you think is true.

And then going forward, you can't ever really feel like you're on solid ground when you're

trying to have a healthy argument because someone's like, well, that didn't happen.

And you're like, oh, my God, did that not happen?

The gaslighting piece, I think, is actually

way more damaging than someone just not taking responsibility for their actions. If you interact with

someone who is a jerk and like they can't ever take responsibility they always make it your fault they're

always defensive you can cut that person off right you can break up with that person you can

stop being friends with them you can quit that job but if someone is like strategically

convincing you that what you know is true is not true, that has lasting emotional damage on a person.

Hey guys, it's Rach. Welcome to the show. I'm so glad that you're here with us today. And I have a

favor, which sounds kind of harsh if we just met, but I'm so glad that you're here with us today. And I have a favor, which sounds

kind of harsh if we just met, but I'm assuming that most of you have been a part of this community

for a hot minute. And so I got to ask, are you subscribed to the podcast? Subscribing to the

podcast you listen to regularly is one of the best things that you can do for hosts like me.

It helps to support the show and the staff that works on it. It ensures that you never miss an

episode when we drop a new one. And here's the cool thing about subscribing. If you do it,

and then you hate this show, just unsubscribe. It's one click away.

In the meantime, if you're listening, we would so appreciate it if you would just

tap that button and make it official.

Hi, guys, it's Rach. Welcome to another episode of the podcast and a new edition in our Ask Rache series. If you've never listened to these episodes before, these are where I answer

questions from the listening audience. So people call in from all over the world sometimes

...