making the decision to help our kids thrive instead of just survive requires so much work

so much time so much effort so many try this therapist try that psychologist try this tutor

try this school try it like it requires a lot it is a lot. It is a part-time, if not a full-time job.

But maybe the space to focus in on the kid at home is exactly what that kid needs to become the best version of themselves.

Because chances are, if the one who's graduating is the stable one like you said and then the second

kid is the one who has a harder time that second kid knows they know that their big brother

is the quote stable kid they know that which means they are comparing themselves maybe other people

in their life compare them to the big brother that is an impossible space to live into

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Welcome to another episode of the podcast and a new edition in our AskRach series.

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