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The Jordan Harbinger Show

837: Who's at Fault When You're a Magnet for Assault? | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Business, Education, Science

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 19 May 2023

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Ever since being sexually assaulted by someone you trusted as a friend in high school, it seems like you only wind up in relationships with people who will similarly hurt you. It's such a troubling pattern that it's got you wondering: are you somehow at fault when you're a magnet for assault? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
  • A pattern of troubling relationships after being sexually assaulted by a trusted friend in high school has you wondering: are you somehow at fault when you're a magnet for assault?
  • Are you obligated to honor the dying wish of a manipulative parent who's never really been there for you in your time of need?
  • The extreme poverty you experienced in childhood no doubt contributed to the mindset that got you where you are today: successful by most metrics and financially well-rewarded. But you also live in fear that one wrong move could take this all away and leave you destitute once again. How can you ever feel safe from the looming specter of poverty?
  • You're a science-rooted skeptic, and your otherwise perfect significant other has a career in alternative medicine. You can live with a difference in views, but you're afraid that important health decisions for your kids could cause major conflict in the future. Is there room enough here to find a middle ground?
  • You're doing work you feel is important, but you often find yourself struggling to get fired up and motivated about following through with it. Is there a way to stay more consistently connected to your purpose, or is this a sign that it's not really your purpose?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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0:00.0

Special thanks to US Bank for sponsoring this episode of the Jordan Harbinger Show.

0:07.8

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always,

0:11.3

I'm here with Feedback Friday producer. A dude who's freshly trimmed beard is making it

0:15.3

pretty hard to roast him this week and only this week. Gabriel Mizrahi.

0:19.3

I'm glad for the reprieve, honestly. I should just shave more often.

0:22.3

Yeah, you get a little break. Don't get used to it.

0:24.6

Yeah.

0:25.3

On the Jordan Harbinger Show, we decode the stories, secrets and skills of the world's most

0:29.2

fascinating people. And we turn there wisdom into practical advice that you can use to

0:32.7

impact your own life and those around you. We want to help you see the matrix when it comes to

0:37.2

how these amazing people that we profile think and behave. In our mission is to help you become

0:41.2

a better informed, more critical thinker so you can get a much deeper understanding of how the

0:45.2

world works and makes sense of what's really happening even inside your own mind.

0:49.2

If you're new to the show, on Fridays, we give advice to you. We answer listener questions.

0:53.1

The rest of the week, we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of incredible

0:57.0

people from spies to CEOs, thinkers, performers, athletes, authors. This week we had Dr. Scott

1:02.7

Lions on drama addiction. I had no idea you could be addicted to drama, but apparently not only

1:07.5

can you be addicted to it, but the mechanism is strikingly similar. So if you know anybody who's

1:11.6

dramatic or if you're the dramatic one, you're going to want to hear this episode really,

1:14.9

really interesting. I had never heard quite frankly most of this stuff that we talked about.

1:19.0

So make sure you've had a listen to everything that we created for you here this week. That is

1:23.2

really quite an episode. Alright, we've got some fun ones, we've got some doosies and I can't

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