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Dear Little Me

82. What Happens to Fatherless Daughters? (Part Two)

Dear Little Me

Dawn Chitty

Childhood Trauma, Emotional Abuse, Narcissistic Mother, Healing, Ptsd, Trauma, Personal Journals, Health & Fitness, Depression, Anxiety, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Women Podcast, Relationships, Self Esteem, Self Help, Self Improvement

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2022

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

How to overcome fatherlessness

Shalina was just 15 months old when her father left.  And that moment changed her life forever.  Shalina was now fatherless.  And that was heartbreaking and traumatic and overwhelming.  It changed what she believed about herself.  She felt deeply abandoned, worthless and disconnected from so many things.  And the same questions continued to haunt Shalina throughout her life... Why did he leave me?  Why didn't he choose to stay?  Did I do something wrong?  Shalina has come so far since those younger struggles, but the hurt is palpable and real and raw.  Fatherlessness comes in many forms and all of them are grief for what has been lost and what could have been.

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0:00.0

But in my mind, I was always just, I was angry, I was bitter, I was lost, I was seeking

0:06.3

male attention, I was constantly questioning myself, am I worthy, am I good enough?

0:12.8

Self-harming as well. Self-harming behaviours as well.

0:23.6

Welcome to how my parents raised me, I'm Dawn Chitty. When we are born, we arrive here as

0:29.6

pure and perfect souls and the direction our life takes from that moment is deeply connected

0:36.8

to what our parents bring to our lives. And what our parents bring to our lives is deeply connected

0:43.8

to what their parents brought to their lives and that's the cycle of families.

0:49.9

I have always craved connection with real and raw stories to understand what makes you

0:58.2

what makes you the absolutely unique human that you are. Stories are medicine for the soul they

1:06.4

can connect us and they can change the world. And so in this podcast, I'm listening to beautiful

1:13.7

souls sharing their story. What happened to them, how they got through and how they have healed

1:20.7

and thrived despite everything to arrive right here in this moment. Content warning,

1:29.1

if you are triggered by the themes of this podcast, please seek a help line in your city.

1:39.2

Hello my beautiful friends and welcome back to the podcast. Did you know that the doors are now

1:44.8

open for the self-love initiation. This is my signature course and I am super excited for this.

1:52.4

I'm going to be leading women on a 12 week journey to find their true selves and be their true

2:00.8

selves so that you can start living the life you dream of. It's about living in the freedom to

2:07.4

be yourself instead of living in the expectation and judgment of your mother, your father, your family,

2:14.4

your friends. If you have spent way too long believing that you are unworthy, unlovable,

2:21.8

if you feel lonely or disconnected, if you feel like you are constantly hustling for everyone's

2:28.8

approval, trying to measure up to what you think is expected of you. If you are seriously exhausted

2:37.1

with trying to be someone you think will fit in and you are starving for connection and love,

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